The Power of Positive Relationships | Awakening Essence

As I become more of who I really am,
I will share the overflow of that love of myself with you.

And I ask you, as you become more of you who you are, free of my expectations of how I think you should be, that you will share the overflow of your love of self with me.

As we do for ourselves what we cannot do for each other, may we both vow to always share the joy and love of who we really are with each other.

The Promise Of The Positives

I promise to myself that I will be responsible for my own happiness.

I promise that I will be responsible for staying in touch with my own needs and responsible for finding ways to get those needs met that are not dependent upon you.

I also promise that I will not take upon myself the burden of thinking that I have to make you happy or keep you happy.

I promise to let you do that for yourself.

I promise not to hold you hostage to accept and love in me what I have not loved and accepted in myself.

I promise that I will not find a part in you that I don?t believe is in me and love it in you instead of finding and loving that within myself.

I will also not be upset when you are not the part I need you to be for me when I can?t find it within myself
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I will not hold you hostage to be for me what I cannot be for myself.

I will let you be free to find what makes you happy as well.

I will not be or feel responsible to keep you happy. I will let you be honest with yourself about that and find it in your way.

I will not try to be for you what you are having trouble being for yourself.

I will not be responsible for either your happiness nor will I be a stand in for what you believe I have in me that you fear does not exist in you. I promise this especially to the best of my?ability.

I promise you that I will not try to be what you are not, so you can feel complete because of your relationship with me.

I will not fall in love with you or stay in love with you (or call it love) because of what you complete in me. I will complete in myself what is incomplete and not hold you responsible to be what I have not yet become.

As I do, I will share the overflow of my love of self with you.
I will not expect you or hold you to be for me what I cannot be for myself.

As I become more of who I really am,
I will share the overflow of that love of myself with you.

And I ask you, as you become more of you who you are, free of my expectations of how I think you should be, that you will share the overflow of your love of self with me.

As we do for ourselves what we cannot do for each other, may we both vow to always share the joy and love of who we really are with each other.

Just so I remember it, I will vow it again.

I will not allow you to ?complete? me.

I will not allow myself to think that I can ?complete? you.

I promise to be free and to free you in your journey of becoming the self you have to love before you can give the overflow of that love to me.

I will not get stuck in loving and admiring in you what I don?t believe is in myself.

I will not allow you to love in me what you believe is in me and not in you, nor will I allow you to hold me hostage when I cannot be what you think you need because you are not there yourself. I ask the same of you.

I want the over flow of your love for yourself and I promise to give you the over flow of the love I have for myself.

When I need you for the wrong things and the wrong reasons, I give you permission to tell me that I am holding you responsible for what you cannot do or give in this or any relationship.

In the authentic expression of your uniqueness, and I in the expression of mine, we choose to aim to become what true partners can become for each other and for the world.

I will love you unconditionally as you are and expect the same from you.

If we bring children into the world or adopt those already here, we promise each other that it will not be for them to complete and fulfill in us how we are not fulfilled, but to share the overflow of our relationship of honest love for the other with those we are making dependent upon us for as short a time, in their lives, as possible.

We will free them as we have freed each other from ?needing? us for the wrong reasons. They will have an example of what relationships and partnerships can be and positively produce in freedom.

Copyright 2012

Dr. William K. Larkin

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